Well, once again it's been way too long between posts.
Some days I just can't seem to find the words (for those of you that know me... I'm sure that's hard to believe) to pass along. That being said, I figured whether I had the right words or not it was time for an update.
Since the last post, Dad has made some great forward progress. He's awake for long periods now, eating (100% of most meals in past couple of days) wonderfully, although he's still having a bit of difficulty (at least as of last night) swallowing clear liquids.
His being awake is awesome to see! He's been pretty talkative; although still no memory of who we (himself included) are at this point in time. Only time will tell.
One of the neurologists was talking with Trish yesterday and gave her a real good message for all of us to remember. Dad’s recovery process is not a sprint… it’s a marathon! We want so much for the healing to be immediate! Boy, do we! However, we (that includes me) need to continue to be strong and supportive as each minute; hour; day or week passes… as thrilled with the ‘baby steps’ as we used to be!
Each day continues to bring challenges… some new & some old. One of the nurses asked him last night if he knew his name. Dad looked at me inquisitively. I said, “Dad, do you know? Or, do you need help?”
He said, “I need help!”
I told him that’s what we’re here for; to fill in the gaps until he’s able to fill them in on his own. He seemed to find some momentary comfort in that, but I know it must be difficult & confusing.
Some say, he probably doesn’t notice or doesn’t realize… I say he does! Dad’s a fighter! You all know that. He used to tell TL, Jimmy & I as kids, “You can do it! You’re an Ellis!” Back then I sometimes wondered whether or not that was a good thing. But now, I know for me at least, I find strength in telling him, “Dad… You CAN beat this! After all, you’re THE ELLIS!”
His life continues to be an inspiration to me, as I’m sure it does to many of you!
I see and hear from people every day that tell me how Dad has touched their life in some way. From churches, stores, at his Rotary club… all over I hear stories or read e-mails from folks of the positive ways that he’s affected them. Not so that he could be lifted high or praised… not at all! Just because that’s the kind of person that God made him out to be.
I look forward to each step we take or lap we make towards the finish line of the marathon that he’s running in. Pray for Gods’ grace to continue. And pray for continued and complete healing and added strength!
Thanks your prayers and continued support for Dad, as well as Trish and the rest of the family!
Johnny:)
